My problem is my husband. Before we got married, he was very descent and a gentleman. Since we got married, however, he has turned into what can best be described as an animal. He likes to have sexual intercourse in unusual and perverted ways. Although we have a comfortable bed, he likes to lay me on a hard floor. He asked me to suck him. I want to please him in this, but the thing is so large, it always makes me choky. I never asked him to do anything abnormal so why has he turned into someone I now fear?
It has got to a point where I hate making love to him. I have even thought of running away.
Uche, by e-mail.
Dear Uche,
Why don’t you tell your husband how you feel about his sexual demands? They are not as abnormal as you think, but you have to enjoy doing them together to make it fulfilling.
Discuss the techniques you particularly fancy with him and try and meet his needs half-way too.
Discuss the techniques you particularly fancy with him and try and meet his needs half-way too.
Now that you are married, you don’t expect him to be as cautious as when you were courting.
But he needs to ease you into demands you both feel comfortable with. Don’t run away from perceived problems only to be confronted by real sexual perverts!
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